Seek Menopause Support Through Empathy, Not Sympathy
AUTHOR: Claire Andrews
For many women, menopause is one of the most challenging times of their adulthood. Some are fortunate enough to have access to supportive spouses, partners, or friends they can talk to freely and openly about symptoms they experience, concerns they may have and pressures they may be experiencing. But even under the best of circumstances, the menopause support a woman might receive may be lacking in many ways.
Menopause support groups are a convenient and highly effective source of the information, reassurance and understanding women are likely to find most beneficial. Chat rooms and other online forums are a great way for women to seek support without venting their frustrations on coworkers, close family members and friends
Millions of women are in the midst of menopause at any given time. Reaching out to others who are experiencing the same distressing and discomforting feelings and symptoms may seem awkward at first, but the effort is likely to pay off ten fold. Taking part in a menopause support network either online or in person can provide access to a peer group in the thousands instantaneously.
The Benefit Of Experience
A free discussion of strategies and treatment options for dealing with menopause symptoms by those with first hand experience can be very helpful for women seeking answers. Peers may provide advice and share information on everything from HRT to herbal supplements to special diets. Exchanging information on what works and what doesn’t can help women better understand their options and the risks, side effects and benefits each may offer.
Emotional Support
Nothing beats being able to rant and rave when you feel stressed out, tired, and sick for a prolonged period of time. Open discussions about the challenges of trying to balance work and home life can be therapeutic. It can be comforting to know other women, too are struggling to maintain an intimate and close relationship with partners during menopause. There are many new challenges women must face as a result of menopause, and at times they can seem overwhelming. Hearing how others handle such challenges can be a wonderful source of practical advice for women in need of menopause support. It can also be a well spring of motivation, inspiration and comfort.
You’re Not Alone, and Neither Are They!
In addition to receiving help and assistance, women can also benefit by giving assistance and lending their ear to other menopause support group members, too. This represents a positive stance women can take in response to menopause when feelings of helplessness and despair are not uncommon.